Thursday, July 8, 2010

The Journey of Sensitive!

Thanks to a lots friend who really concerned on Kiyo's condition! Here, let me story a bit about what happen to Kiyo and how's her condition now!

Before Kiyo turns 2yrs old, she is an active and healthy gal, she hardly fall sick, if do, she recovered very fast! But not everyday is fullmoon day, Kiyo was having a long cough, about a month, when she reached 2yrs old, taken many medicine still coughing on n off... i stopped her from all sort of foods, chicken, cold stuffs, fruits, sweets and bla bla, but nothing helps! I brought her to see sensei, boiled 'chuan bei' with korean pear everyday, fed her 'hou zhao shan' everyday too, cough lesser only! I was so upset and so down... i was so sad when she cough non stop til she vomitted out everything!

She was on Singulair and anti allergy medicine for a mth from her child specialist! This really knocked the cough down, she cough on n off still but lesser. At the same time, we bought in 4units of AAF air purifier (becomes an agent too) and changed her Enfagrow to Organic Soya Milk..

AAF Air Purifer, i am using the 1st left unit...

BMS Biogreen Organic DHA Soya milk (for above 1yr old) - how i come across to this soya milk, it's actually intro by my customer, who is the owner of Lohas, attached with BMS bandar puteri branch! One fine evening, i met her at my shop and talking about Kiyo's case, she suggested me to change Kiyo's milk, the reason is when milk goes into human body, the milk then will form into gel type with body temperature, and these gel will stay at kid's narrow throat and becomes phlegm! I have to agree with her as Kiyo has many phlegm when she cough and she have to vomit out the sticky thingy then only her cough will stopped.. Later, i went and do some survey, the sale assistant of BMS introduced this DHA Soya Milk to me, the DHA Gold are from seaweed not animals! And, it contains of OLIGOSACCHARIDE prebiotic and made of peeled organic beans...

This is the 4 powder to mix to make her milk daily, 6.5oz/3hours... i started add in Nestle Rice cereal when i stopped cooking own made rice cereal when she was 1yr old, too lazy to cook everyday! For Nestum, Leann taught me to blend it and add in for fragrance! The Oatmilk, introduced by BMS lady too, high in calcium... i am normally mix the cereal, nestum n oatmilk into 1 container, add in 1 big scoop to the milk only!

These are the medicine for that few month on n off coughing! Fever, flu, cough, anti allergy...

And, i gave her oso bird's nest with Cordyceps, some herbs boil with lean meat, and these supplement! (includes Organic Virgin Coconut oil)... I know it's a bit too much and over...

Thank to god, after months consuming the soya milk and these supplements, she is now *touch wood* less sensitive to dust or mite or carpet or cushion! (she used to cough once she stepped in my car, then we bought another cushion washer machine just to solve this problem) And, her child specialist said it's glad that we found out what actually she is sensitive to and at least we can do more prevention on it, but still we need to expose her to it, so her body can build own immunityt! Gambateh... i am now slowly let go her to all foods, cold stuffs and fruits, of cox still taking extra care, stop it when cough again! So far so good...

Well, she still on cold shower, since 6mths old, i never intend to change it! i always believed kids take cold shower are stronger, and she likes it (except washing hair moment)

Oh ya, her cough finally fully stopped at 3rd mth, which is 2mths after milk changing!

Friday, June 25, 2010

Miracle from gene...

Just found back this photo of mine and i combined it with Kiyo's 1yr old photo... how much similar look?

Monday, June 14, 2010

Happy Birthday To Hubby Enan...

Happy Birthday to Hubby... May all ur wish comes true, May ur business goes smooth, May god gift u baby number 2... hahahahahhaa....

(Yea, he is Enan, i am Maggie, i am using his multiply account all these while, so today is his bday not mine)

Friday, April 9, 2010

据说有一种女人嫁给谁都能幸福

有一种女人,不管她嫁的是建筑工人还是国会议员,她都有能力让自己过得幸福!

  我见到明依是在好友的聚会上,一个35岁的女人,中等姿色,学历也不高,却嫁了个气宇轩昂的好老公,他据说是硕士,后来做家具生意发了家,结婚10年,有一个粉雕玉镯的小女儿,好友说完后半妒半羡地感叹,嫁到这么好的男人,明依真幸福,我笑着不说话,想来她的故事不会这么简单。
  

幸福能力1

会做菜,会煲汤,会踏实过日子


  明依嫁给老公的时候,他还是大学里年轻的讲师,站在讲台上激情飞扬地大谈犬儒主义和叔本华,台下的女生们多数是冲着英俊老师来的,明依全身心的投入和迷恋这份感情,那时候她当然不会去考虑台上气质非凡的男人名下只有一间20平米的筒子楼宿舍。
  婚后的现状虽然不尽如人意,但如胶似漆的爱情可以弥补一切。小两口一起在公共用水间洗衣服,一人一头拧床单;在烟熏火燎的楼道里做饭,饭后老公陪着她边洗碗边聊天;周末手拉手去看场电影或是回婆家吃顿饭。明依觉得小日子虽然清贫,但一样觉得幸福甜蜜,她把眼光从简陋的家,朴素的衣裳,自己光秃秃的脖子手指上移开,每月精打细算的捂着手中不多的钱把日子过好,明依做得一手好菜,老公最爱喝她熬的汤,排骨炖莲藕,鲫鱼萝卜丝,芋头娃娃菜……每次喝的肚儿圆圆才放下碗。看到老公简单满足的微笑,明依觉得,这就是幸福。
  大学的谈资论辈终于令老公厌烦了。明依看出了他的心思,鼓励他去经商创业,那一阵,家里家外的事情全靠明依一手操持,老公在外面联系洽谈,四处求人,有时候碰壁受气,回家难免冲着老婆发泄。日子比刚结婚那阵更苦,心理压力也大,明依背地里也哭过,当面也和老公吵过,但每当一早醒来看见老公的头颅孩子一般依恋在自己的肩头,心里便像温水里融化的蜜,暖暖的,甜甜的。
  她比以往更加用心操持家务,把500元租来的小房间布置得整洁温馨;老公夜归的时候她总在灯下等着,接下沉重的公文包,递上一杯热茶;临睡前两口子坐在床头聊聊烦心的事情,共同商量解决问题的办法。
  

幸福能力2

对婚姻别期望太高,少抱怨,少纠结于小事

  怀上孩子的时候,老公的事业刚起步,天天周旋于客户和朋友间,请客吃饭,陪酒,陪玩,每晚不到深更半夜回不了家。明依非常难过,面前的男人虽然还是熟悉的面孔,却好像完全换了一个灵魂。他没时间对着大肚子的老婆嘘寒问暖,没精力回应老婆的温存关切,在生活的残酷考验下,他还原了男人爱事业不爱美人的本质,简直就是一个工作狂。明依觉得自己的温柔克己完全白费了,眼前的男人已经不是当初自己深爱的那一个,再勉强下去还有什么意义?
  定居美国的大姐回来看她,明依哭着告诉她:老公给不了我想要的幸福,我想离婚。大姐缄默,第二天给她带来一本美国专栏女作家的畅销小集子,里面有一句话让明依有所触动:有一种女人,不管她嫁的是建筑工人还是国会议员,她都有能力让自己过得幸福。没错,女人的幸福,为什么要靠男人给呢?每个女人,都应该有让自己,让家庭幸福的能力。
  大着肚子的明依向父母求援,请妈妈过来帮忙买菜做饭,照顾这个自己无力兼顾的小家。她强迫自己不去想烦心的事情,每天吃好睡好,安心养胎;她不再等老公夜归,不再像以前那样每天缠着他问长问短,不再拿鸡毛蒜皮的小事去烦他;在他偶尔有空的时间里让他搀着自己散步,彼此取笑着对方为孩子取名字。也怪了,一天天平静安稳地过去,原本觉得天昏暗地的生活,渐渐变得阳光灿烂起来。
女儿快3岁了,他们搬了新家。钱都花在房款上了,明依雇了个油漆匠把墙一刷,购置了简单的家具,就这样凑合着先搬进去了。老公每天回家都能看到一点点新的变化:客厅里别致的灯罩是用硬纸壳蒙上米色暗红碎花图案的棉布做的;自己到海南出差带回来的椰子,吃剩的硬壳被巧妙改造成了造型可爱的小猪扑满;卷筒纸用完了,明依给简芯细致地裹上了一层米白色亚麻细布,教女儿用蜡笔涂鸦,画出五彩的虹,绿的树,蓝色的河流,金色的太阳公公,这样一个DIY小笔筒摆在书桌上,做爸爸的每次看到心里都暖洋洋的。一个原本平凡的空间在明依手里渐渐改头换面,一天比一天丰富,一天比一天有情趣。

  幸福能力3

培养自己的兴趣爱好,照顾好自己在前,不冷落家庭在后


  汤妮的出现差点儿击碎了明依的幸福梦想。她是老公生意上的重要合伙人之一,年轻,家境富裕,有生意头脑和管理能力,带着一种咄咄逼人的美和气势。汤妮明显地向老公老公表示好感,根本不在乎他的已婚身份,男人到了这种地步,不免有些心猿意马,暧昧不明。很多人都来向明依告密,有的是打抱不平,有的纯粹为了看热闹。
  明依却还是和以前一样,看自己的书,种自己的花花草草,照顾刚上小学的女儿。
  在老公回家的时候,给他送上舒服的拖鞋;在他起床洗漱的时候,提前给他挤好牙膏。她对烹调的兴趣越发浓厚,时不时来些新奇的花样。比如把香蕉切成小块,浇上酸奶,然后裹上全麦饼干屑;去凤凰旅游的时候学会了用蒜叶和新鲜芫菜加干辣椒炝炒;跟婆婆学会了做四川泡菜。
  种种小创意让在外面吃惯了大鱼大肉的老公回到家来就会忍不住多添一碗饭,赞一句,还是家里的菜好吃。明依把周末的时间精心策划起来,老公有空的时候,带上孩子,开车到附近的农家乐,踏青,看红叶,老公没空陪她,她就自己带着女儿去儿童乐园,或是看最新上映的动画大片。每次娘俩儿都开心的手牵手回家,女儿欢声笑语,明依红光满面。
  老公终日担心,如果明依提出那个难堪的问题,他不知道该如何回答。但明依开开心心地过自己的日子,从来不多问一句。当然明依也有变化:她恢复了几分婚前活泼可爱的样子,穿衣打扮越发精致;她参加了瑜伽课,学打网球;她组织姐妹旅行团去尼泊尔,回来容光焕发,给女儿带回一条手工绣花的小裙子,送老公一个乌木镶银的烟灰缸;她甚至开始学习英文,居然可以磕磕巴巴地和美国网友聊天!这个跟了自己10年的女人身上原来还有那么多自己不了解的特质和能量,这一切都让他感觉既陌生又熟悉,并深深为之吸引。
  汤妮的事情居然就这么慢慢地淡了,没了,女友去看明依,崇拜无比地追问她处理方式。明依笑说,见怪不怪,其怪自败。以前我老觉得嫁个好老公就能幸福,现在看起来,女人的幸福不是靠男人给的。女人要有让自己幸福的能力。热爱生活,照顾好家庭,不冷落自己,这才是女人真正的幸福。
  

这话有道理,一个家庭幸不幸福,80%以上取决于女主人。有能力让自己幸福,有能力给男人幸福,才是聪明的好女人。

Thursday, March 4, 2010

25mths - i Want What i Want, NOW...

i want what i want, NOW...



This tittle is the best to describe ours Kiyo at age of 25mths! A total change once she stepped into her 25th month, can u believe it?



She is well known with her active character, non stop moving body and octopus hand, NOW add on bad temper! OMG... She is now refused to put on/off clothes/diaper/pant, surely need a big 'fight', big screaming crying to get her change! I have tried asking her permission/tell her how pretty she is with the dress/how dirty is the soil diaper/clothes, all these excuses are useless, never work, until i forced her to change, until Enan warning her then beat her, still she says NO... I am sure you dont believed this, myself too! Kiyo has quite a good temper all these while but what make this happen suddenly. I think toddler at this age are more or less the same, they started to know more thing, learn new thing and want more attention! hmn...

One story happen last week, This night, as usual, i wanted her to change into her pyjamas around 11pm, she refused! i tried my best to tell her how nice is that pyjamas, how dirty is her cloth, how smelly is her soil diaper but i am failed. She stil struggled and kicking me, i was so mad and i removed her cloth and pant forcely. Of course she screamed and cried til Enan came up, warned her and shout at her when she stil non stop screaming! She kept wanted to wear her pant back and still kicking me! Enan was so angry, warned her again, but doesnt work, then he showed her the rattan, she screamed even louder, at last Enan softly hit her leg, it really stopped the 'music' but only for a while! Kiyo still insisted to wear the pant back, still refused to put on her pyjamas! That night, she was topless, with that soil diaper and up-side-down pant she wore herself, refused to go into bedroom, fall sleep with tears and rubbing her leg on the sofa! I am so sad but kept telling myself not to comfort her too much, i dont want to give her wrong message! So i still lesson-ing her!

Having trouble keeping up with your energetic toddler? Now that walking's old hat, she's probably moved on to running, jumping and hopping. When she gets all wound up, let her go — otherwise you'll have a restless, cranky child on your hands as the day wears on. You can channel some of her energy by setting up little games. Ask her to pick up toys and run back to the toy box with them, or go outside and teach her the game of hopscotch. Don't worry about whether she can pick up the stone or jump in the right boxes — just let her have fun and move around. It will give her a chance to work off some of that boundless energy while helping her build strength and co-ordination - email from babycentre

This email is pushing me hard to send Kiyo to Musikgarten and bring her out to indoor playground/shopping mall, just to work off her energy! Kiyo will be attending her 1st class this fri evening and soon maybe swimming class!

25mths progress :
- singing her own language and dancing her own ways
- able to speak a word with 2 syllables, as baby, daddy, 蚂蚁, apple, turtle, baba sleep
- able to communicate well, express herself well, as 开mummum, yoyo 拿,Barney 开
- working well with both hand, as open bottle cap easily, unlatch the door lock-go downstair- latch back the lock, apply shower gel at her own,
- taking photo using my phone camera and posing for us to take her photo and play back the photo for her to check, requested to snap on her hand/back/mouth 自恋
- itchy mouth and asked for foods/snack every hour, even after 8oz milk (since she started with coconut oil supplement and multi-vitamins syrup)
- signs of choosy on foods and DVD
- learning to count 1-10 in english































Mummy is teaching her name now by saying K I Y O, Kiyo! Then, mummy wanted her to repeat!
Mummy : K
Kiyo : I
Mummy : Y
Kiyo : O
Pengsan!
Same thing happen to 1-10!
Mummy : one
Kiyo : two
Mummy : three
Kiyo : five
Mummy : four..... five... six....seven
Kiyo : nine
Kiyo : ten
Pengsan!






Friday, January 29, 2010

2Y - IOI Boulevard, The Palette!

Another night searching for foods in Puchong... It's harder to find foods in this rainy night, we need to find those under roof place, so we choosed IOI Boulevard, new place, opposite IOI Mall... After dinner, as usual, Kiyo loves to running around, especially there're a big indoor water fountain! See how crazy she is and her cloth is wet... Enan nearly pengsan when saw her!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

When Everyone Going to School, Except her!

Y, she is supposed to be in the Form 3 class, preparing for her PMR and enjoying th eschol life. Sadly, she is still waiting for the reply from Education Department to give her a school to attend to.

Story begins at last year, i cant remmebered exactly when but was around sept or oct. As usual, Y and sister went to school. Half way of the class, Y's sister came with tears saying teacher wanted to cut her hair on the spot. Y as a elder sister, she loves her sister a lots. Y comforted her sister, asked her to go back the class to get her bag and wait for father to come to fetch early. After waited minutes, Y got worried and go looked for her sister, she saw her sister and the teacher were pulling each others. The teacher doesnt allowed the sister to left early and insisted to cut her hair. Y went for help then by dono how, Y gave a slap to teacher. The whole class happily clapped hand. Later, teacher sent both the sister and parent to see principal. No matter how much tears and begging the mother gave, principal still insister and told off loudly that she is going to chase Y out from school and make sure no other school will take her.

This story is told by 3rd party, not from Y or her mother so i dono how true the story and the exact story happened. But from 9mths knowing Y, to me, she is a matured gal, kind, soft hearted girl. She is helping the parent in business when school and no school time! When she talked to me, her speech is steady and knowledgeable. I loves to talk with her actually.

The purpose i wrote this out is not for anything but to release the unhappy in me. How can a principal do this to a student? How can she stopped other school from taking her? How can she never give a chance to Y? Is this what a person in education field shud behave as? I am very sad and feel so unfair on Y's incident. Everything happen from 2 parties hand, so how can they blamed all fault to Y? So, what punishment do the teacher get? She has the right to cut student hair? She has the right to pull student's bag? I know she has the right to stop her to left the school without permission, but at least she shud has better way to deal in this incident. I feel so disappointed to them. A teacher a pricipal behaved like this!