Thursday, March 4, 2010

25mths - i Want What i Want, NOW...

i want what i want, NOW...



This tittle is the best to describe ours Kiyo at age of 25mths! A total change once she stepped into her 25th month, can u believe it?



She is well known with her active character, non stop moving body and octopus hand, NOW add on bad temper! OMG... She is now refused to put on/off clothes/diaper/pant, surely need a big 'fight', big screaming crying to get her change! I have tried asking her permission/tell her how pretty she is with the dress/how dirty is the soil diaper/clothes, all these excuses are useless, never work, until i forced her to change, until Enan warning her then beat her, still she says NO... I am sure you dont believed this, myself too! Kiyo has quite a good temper all these while but what make this happen suddenly. I think toddler at this age are more or less the same, they started to know more thing, learn new thing and want more attention! hmn...

One story happen last week, This night, as usual, i wanted her to change into her pyjamas around 11pm, she refused! i tried my best to tell her how nice is that pyjamas, how dirty is her cloth, how smelly is her soil diaper but i am failed. She stil struggled and kicking me, i was so mad and i removed her cloth and pant forcely. Of course she screamed and cried til Enan came up, warned her and shout at her when she stil non stop screaming! She kept wanted to wear her pant back and still kicking me! Enan was so angry, warned her again, but doesnt work, then he showed her the rattan, she screamed even louder, at last Enan softly hit her leg, it really stopped the 'music' but only for a while! Kiyo still insisted to wear the pant back, still refused to put on her pyjamas! That night, she was topless, with that soil diaper and up-side-down pant she wore herself, refused to go into bedroom, fall sleep with tears and rubbing her leg on the sofa! I am so sad but kept telling myself not to comfort her too much, i dont want to give her wrong message! So i still lesson-ing her!

Having trouble keeping up with your energetic toddler? Now that walking's old hat, she's probably moved on to running, jumping and hopping. When she gets all wound up, let her go — otherwise you'll have a restless, cranky child on your hands as the day wears on. You can channel some of her energy by setting up little games. Ask her to pick up toys and run back to the toy box with them, or go outside and teach her the game of hopscotch. Don't worry about whether she can pick up the stone or jump in the right boxes — just let her have fun and move around. It will give her a chance to work off some of that boundless energy while helping her build strength and co-ordination - email from babycentre

This email is pushing me hard to send Kiyo to Musikgarten and bring her out to indoor playground/shopping mall, just to work off her energy! Kiyo will be attending her 1st class this fri evening and soon maybe swimming class!

25mths progress :
- singing her own language and dancing her own ways
- able to speak a word with 2 syllables, as baby, daddy, 蚂蚁, apple, turtle, baba sleep
- able to communicate well, express herself well, as 开mummum, yoyo 拿,Barney 开
- working well with both hand, as open bottle cap easily, unlatch the door lock-go downstair- latch back the lock, apply shower gel at her own,
- taking photo using my phone camera and posing for us to take her photo and play back the photo for her to check, requested to snap on her hand/back/mouth 自恋
- itchy mouth and asked for foods/snack every hour, even after 8oz milk (since she started with coconut oil supplement and multi-vitamins syrup)
- signs of choosy on foods and DVD
- learning to count 1-10 in english































Mummy is teaching her name now by saying K I Y O, Kiyo! Then, mummy wanted her to repeat!
Mummy : K
Kiyo : I
Mummy : Y
Kiyo : O
Pengsan!
Same thing happen to 1-10!
Mummy : one
Kiyo : two
Mummy : three
Kiyo : five
Mummy : four..... five... six....seven
Kiyo : nine
Kiyo : ten
Pengsan!